from what i have realised from this awesome book (Oprah thinks so too), many people in this generation are putting so much mental labels on themselves. and what do i mean by "mental labels" ?
i dentifications of course.
whatever you possess, does not define your true self.
Being the CEO in a big company does not make who you are,
Discovery of a new substance, new physics law, or any achievements does not sum up to who you are,
whether you are rich or poor, does it really matter?
does whatever talent you have make you who you are?
if Peter is smart, does it mean being smart is Peter?
or in a way you geeks may understand like i would....
ENGLISH: peter is rich, but rich is not peter
MATH: peter=handsome but handsome =/= peter
PHYSICS: you can derive a formula from p=F/A but you can't derive from anything else to give that formula
BIO: parent cell gives daughter cell, daughter cell can't smply combine to give parent cell
CHEMISTRY: Mg + 2HCl ----> H2 + MgCl2, the reaction is irreversible.
We are the initials of everything, we make achivements, money, friendship, and every other identities, but identites can't sum up to who we are.
When we are born, we are not given any identities, it's what we made up in life that gave us so many identities, that made our simple life, confusing.
and of course, to disentagle from identities, we simply have to see the true image in us.
i used to hear this line from someone,
THE PERSON: can we just go to your house instead?
ME: no, let's just stick to going to your house
THE PERSON: dun wan la.
ME: why? but your house is so big... (jokingly)
THE PERSON: i know rite...
is the house somehow making up who this person is? the person thinks that by possessing the house, the person becomes superior, and that made that person proud, full of identites, and able to gain attention, but deep inside, the house did not represent the person, but only his ego or i would call arrogance.
so what if you have talents in acting, singging, dancing, playing piano, mastering many languages, intelligent, rich, handsome, pretty or perfect?
its only when at the brink of life, that people tend to realise, that these are just merely identifications,
in an anology: these are the play of a sketch, they show out the character, but they can never substitute the character.
deep inside, we are ourself, we are our LIFE, and we are not define by what we achieved or what we possesses. be confused about who you truly are, cuz then only you will realise the actor in you, not the act.
do not become a person i know of that this person is so defined by what he/she possesses (nothing much of course but a lot of self fiction story and exaggeration to create a false identity)
so deeply unconcious that he/she tend to be using "I", "ME", "MYSELF","MINE" very much frequently.
and he/she would step people down to strenthen his/her own identites, that is to be superior that others, these people aren't guilty, they are just unconcious.
be a concious being and feel who "I AM" in you.
you are who you are, search for you inner you, not the identities you hold or mental labels you place on yourself
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
6th and 7th kind.......
people i've met so far have five types, today i realise there is the sixth and seventh kind....
6th: arrogant people/know all/so call "leaders"/attention seeker.
these are thee worst people you could ever met....
i don't need to say much... just analyse when you hear this conversation....
A: why can't we do it in your house ?
B: dun wan la.
A: but then it's better to finish it there...
B: dun wan la.
A: but your house is so big (jokingly)
here's the best part...
B: I KNOW RITE....
i shall not reveal further story, so that the person dun realise it's them.
7th : i am a "peace-maker"
these peace-maker usually turn out to be trouble makers, thinking that they are good in settling things, standing up for a friend, so call protecting someone they love but truth is, they hurt them more and they do this by hurting their friend's enemy. what else i can say, you hurt two person at a go and you call it peace-making? clowns whom do not know their extend of joke.
they think they are sorting things out when really, they are complicating it up, and of course who are they to realise all these, all they care is "i want my friends to be happy" BUT.... they forget to speak the next phrase.... "... so that i can create a happy environment for myself as well............."
(once again, this message serves as no message, so dun perasan so much unless you yourself feels that you are person like this, this is a general message which serves as no hate, just to let the world know the existence of people as said)
6th: arrogant people/know all/so call "leaders"/attention seeker.
these are thee worst people you could ever met....
i don't need to say much... just analyse when you hear this conversation....
A: why can't we do it in your house ?
B: dun wan la.
A: but then it's better to finish it there...
B: dun wan la.
A: but your house is so big (jokingly)
here's the best part...
B: I KNOW RITE....
i shall not reveal further story, so that the person dun realise it's them.
7th : i am a "peace-maker"
these peace-maker usually turn out to be trouble makers, thinking that they are good in settling things, standing up for a friend, so call protecting someone they love but truth is, they hurt them more and they do this by hurting their friend's enemy. what else i can say, you hurt two person at a go and you call it peace-making? clowns whom do not know their extend of joke.
they think they are sorting things out when really, they are complicating it up, and of course who are they to realise all these, all they care is "i want my friends to be happy" BUT.... they forget to speak the next phrase.... "... so that i can create a happy environment for myself as well............."
(once again, this message serves as no message, so dun perasan so much unless you yourself feels that you are person like this, this is a general message which serves as no hate, just to let the world know the existence of people as said)
Some people...
1.... are those who thinks "i am great and i am right" and let me tell you this...
NO one is right nor wrong, NO one can say she/he is not offending anyone, NO one has the right to blame others, CUZ we all aren't right.
and for all of you out there who think you are "AWESOME", "GREAT", "CORRECT", you all are nothing but one who thinks "I am a freaking superb know-all"
If the fact that our solar system has nine planets is wrong, and the fact that there are only twelve constellation is also wrong... who has the right to tell he/she is right? (next thing you know, the fact that earth is spherical is also wrong... wait.... IT IS WRONG, it's oblate spheroid!)
the point is, we think with majority, when majority agrees, does it mean it must be right ? we have just proven three major facts wrong.
and...................
everyone used to think einstein is wrong, but in the end ? he is right!
this also tells us we have no right to prove others wrong as well.
2. ....are those who acts like child, or the term i like to use is (c***p b***h)
I am amazed that even after 18 years old, some children can really be like children.
Maybe that's why they are persistent in saying "childhood is the best" very much frequent.
They would pretty much prefer the childish way of settling things, they backstab and gives you a cold look when they pass by, pretty much like an arrogant b***h.
and thus you can figure out why the class start to give you a cold shoulder...
these people are by-far the human with lowest form of evolution, they somehow skipped civilisation.
they does nothing when they are backup-less, so they start with their nearest friends, and the from there, they gather more scums along the way.
and when you meet one, be sure not to do the same, do not act like these low level beings, do not give them any stare, just ignore their existence and that's the best you can do.
cuz someone told me before... "the greatest revenge in life, is to show the other person you are living JUST as WELL WITOUT them"
i shall mention NO names on this.
and for your kind information, i am living well.
3. ... who are like dogs, they are in serious need for masters....
these are people who act like dogs, speak like one, and they does as told. These are the second lowest form of being. Especially when you are a man, stand up and do things for yourself like you have your own guts. dun stand behind someone's shadow.
When they get a true friend, they are lucky enough to get someone to cast the dogginess in them away.
What if they get someone else ?
that's when they will dog around like little puppies, forgetting every other friend they have, rather sacrifice all his/her friend to stick with this master.
these people are also termed "friend-choser", those who chooses better friend and dumps the old one, pretty much of a clique, only that if you are in a clique, you dun serve other members like a little puppies.
the one i knew is extreme, carrying bags, sacrificial object, 24 hour bodyguard, companion in activity, and pretty much the BUTLER.
to you who like to stick around people's life, let me give you a final advise, Get Your Own Life.
dun forget this is a doggy dog world, your master can always pet another dog, or turn into another dog just like you.
4. ... overreacting people, whose their defence is to offence...
i am going to be very truthful bout this.... i am one of it. =='''
i overreact most of the time to small things, or you can call it sensitivity. these are the people with lowest safety level. they constantly feels unsafe, that people are offending them all the time, discriminating them, that people hates them.
some are born this way, some are induced, for me, i am the induced one.
i am not going to give myself any reason or make myself sound good in anyway. i am an overreacting head-cracked and super insecure little boy who build up a wall against everyone.
i am also not going to blame how these idiots has caused such a big influence in my life that i become like this, all i can say is that, i could have done something back then to prevent the insecurity, but i did not, so i end up a miserable troubled child.
to the extend of that i am building up a wall against close ones. not believing anything.
All i can say is that, i am now hurt-proof.
However, this is not something to be proud of, as much as i am not devoting any love, i am not feeling any at all from people who try to show it. something good you think?
i offend people to protect myself and keep me save, each time i think someone is trying to hurt me with words, which happen frequently. all i ask is not forgival but a simple understanding. =) and for you out there who still don't understand.... pls, get outta my life. =D
But who else can i blame other than all the three types of people above that appeared in my life ?
But again, i have no rights to blame anyone like i've mentioned myself, so i am not going to conflict my words. i shall bear the brunt. I am an insecure and overreacting troubled boy =)
5. .... who stay by your side when in times of trouble...
do i need to say more ? so touched (T.T)
*if you think this message serves as a hate message, YOU ARE WRONG! i only mention this based on the type of people in this world, so if you somehow FELT it, it's you, not me. you must have somehow show some degree of agreement that you are those kind of people, that's why you perasan, so..... don't, i din mention names, you are therefore not included, dun self-include and then backstab me like a lil b***h again =D *
NO one is right nor wrong, NO one can say she/he is not offending anyone, NO one has the right to blame others, CUZ we all aren't right.
and for all of you out there who think you are "AWESOME", "GREAT", "CORRECT", you all are nothing but one who thinks "I am a freaking superb know-all"
If the fact that our solar system has nine planets is wrong, and the fact that there are only twelve constellation is also wrong... who has the right to tell he/she is right? (next thing you know, the fact that earth is spherical is also wrong... wait.... IT IS WRONG, it's oblate spheroid!)
the point is, we think with majority, when majority agrees, does it mean it must be right ? we have just proven three major facts wrong.
and...................
everyone used to think einstein is wrong, but in the end ? he is right!
this also tells us we have no right to prove others wrong as well.
2. ....are those who acts like child, or the term i like to use is (c***p b***h)
I am amazed that even after 18 years old, some children can really be like children.
Maybe that's why they are persistent in saying "childhood is the best" very much frequent.
They would pretty much prefer the childish way of settling things, they backstab and gives you a cold look when they pass by, pretty much like an arrogant b***h.
and thus you can figure out why the class start to give you a cold shoulder...
these people are by-far the human with lowest form of evolution, they somehow skipped civilisation.
they does nothing when they are backup-less, so they start with their nearest friends, and the from there, they gather more scums along the way.
and when you meet one, be sure not to do the same, do not act like these low level beings, do not give them any stare, just ignore their existence and that's the best you can do.
cuz someone told me before... "the greatest revenge in life, is to show the other person you are living JUST as WELL WITOUT them"
i shall mention NO names on this.
and for your kind information, i am living well.
3. ... who are like dogs, they are in serious need for masters....
these are people who act like dogs, speak like one, and they does as told. These are the second lowest form of being. Especially when you are a man, stand up and do things for yourself like you have your own guts. dun stand behind someone's shadow.
When they get a true friend, they are lucky enough to get someone to cast the dogginess in them away.
What if they get someone else ?
that's when they will dog around like little puppies, forgetting every other friend they have, rather sacrifice all his/her friend to stick with this master.
these people are also termed "friend-choser", those who chooses better friend and dumps the old one, pretty much of a clique, only that if you are in a clique, you dun serve other members like a little puppies.
the one i knew is extreme, carrying bags, sacrificial object, 24 hour bodyguard, companion in activity, and pretty much the BUTLER.
to you who like to stick around people's life, let me give you a final advise, Get Your Own Life.
dun forget this is a doggy dog world, your master can always pet another dog, or turn into another dog just like you.
4. ... overreacting people, whose their defence is to offence...
i am going to be very truthful bout this.... i am one of it. =='''
i overreact most of the time to small things, or you can call it sensitivity. these are the people with lowest safety level. they constantly feels unsafe, that people are offending them all the time, discriminating them, that people hates them.
some are born this way, some are induced, for me, i am the induced one.
i am not going to give myself any reason or make myself sound good in anyway. i am an overreacting head-cracked and super insecure little boy who build up a wall against everyone.
i am also not going to blame how these idiots has caused such a big influence in my life that i become like this, all i can say is that, i could have done something back then to prevent the insecurity, but i did not, so i end up a miserable troubled child.
to the extend of that i am building up a wall against close ones. not believing anything.
All i can say is that, i am now hurt-proof.
However, this is not something to be proud of, as much as i am not devoting any love, i am not feeling any at all from people who try to show it. something good you think?
i offend people to protect myself and keep me save, each time i think someone is trying to hurt me with words, which happen frequently. all i ask is not forgival but a simple understanding. =) and for you out there who still don't understand.... pls, get outta my life. =D
But who else can i blame other than all the three types of people above that appeared in my life ?
But again, i have no rights to blame anyone like i've mentioned myself, so i am not going to conflict my words. i shall bear the brunt. I am an insecure and overreacting troubled boy =)
5. .... who stay by your side when in times of trouble...
do i need to say more ? so touched (T.T)
*if you think this message serves as a hate message, YOU ARE WRONG! i only mention this based on the type of people in this world, so if you somehow FELT it, it's you, not me. you must have somehow show some degree of agreement that you are those kind of people, that's why you perasan, so..... don't, i din mention names, you are therefore not included, dun self-include and then backstab me like a lil b***h again =D *
How to spell M-I-S-T-A-K-E ...
we all, in some point of our lives, have committed crime, offence, defence, or i would say "mistakes".
It's the route we've chosen in our lives, whether or not the path is bumpy, rubly, rocky, slippery, smooth, wide, straight, lotsa turnings, it's our choice that we've chosen that path. Some path led us back to the correct ones, some misled us to even more mistakes, and some are cul de sac (dead ends).
But it still comes back to... "it's our choice".
why regret when you can move on? why turn back when there is more to explore out front? and why look back when there are more to look forward to?
some loves to hold on, for me, i love to move on. whether or not your path is right or wrong, worthy or not, it's not up to people around you to judge, it's up to you to decide. All i could say is that... nothing we does ends up in vain, Mr.Newton have said "every action has an opposite and equal reaction", and this principle does not bound to physics only, but our lives as well. Some of our action might be wrong, but ask yourself... "so?"
We all aren't made stupid. we all have brains and this special organ of ours' can THINK and ANALYSE
thus, we learn a lesson.
Is drama-ing really neccessary? Is it neccessary to grief all day long? and is it neccessary to hold on and suffer further?
answer these question and think!
things happen for a reason, some are made to make you learn. so, learn from mistake and move on.
what's matter is that, no more same mistakes in future, or the lesson wil repeat itself like a tuition class.
It's the route we've chosen in our lives, whether or not the path is bumpy, rubly, rocky, slippery, smooth, wide, straight, lotsa turnings, it's our choice that we've chosen that path. Some path led us back to the correct ones, some misled us to even more mistakes, and some are cul de sac (dead ends).
But it still comes back to... "it's our choice".
why regret when you can move on? why turn back when there is more to explore out front? and why look back when there are more to look forward to?
some loves to hold on, for me, i love to move on. whether or not your path is right or wrong, worthy or not, it's not up to people around you to judge, it's up to you to decide. All i could say is that... nothing we does ends up in vain, Mr.Newton have said "every action has an opposite and equal reaction", and this principle does not bound to physics only, but our lives as well. Some of our action might be wrong, but ask yourself... "so?"
We all aren't made stupid. we all have brains and this special organ of ours' can THINK and ANALYSE
thus, we learn a lesson.
Is drama-ing really neccessary? Is it neccessary to grief all day long? and is it neccessary to hold on and suffer further?
answer these question and think!
things happen for a reason, some are made to make you learn. so, learn from mistake and move on.
what's matter is that, no more same mistakes in future, or the lesson wil repeat itself like a tuition class.
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