today's life was almost amazing to live through.... i must agree that after hearing a CERTAIN NEWS(SECRET) which only close friends of mine knows, i am really jealous and feels not special anymore beside worrying about my performance. but still i spent a whole day in college today(despite is a holiday) with some of my collegemates studying...
*more of completing homework actually
but nevetheless, it was very fun since just the four of us were challenging ourself with BIO and MATHS. I hereby specially thanks Daniel, Patrick and Chia for making my day wonderful...
and also my dear caunsellor which made me realise AGAIN that comparison and competition is unneccessary. Someone being better than you does not mean that he or she will in any way diminish yourself, instead we should focus on our set goal and achieve it in our own way, comparing with others will just provide endless jealousy and envy which in turn will bring unhappiness. my friend RAHUPATHI which studies based on the princips of comparison and competition in which not only made himself unhappy but others around him too. Only a dear friend can be immune to his attitude ... and thats me! however, i strongly opposes this idea of his... as i said, no point comparing when you dun even know what will happen in the future.... my point is that your goal is there and just achieve it, no time for comparisons!!!
REMEMBER: NO ONE CAN DIMINISH YOURSELF BUT YOURSELF!
STOP THE COMPARISON AND COMPETITION AND START IMPROVING BY CHALLENGING YOURSELF NOT OTHERS!
plus, i had a great time with my BFF(just an expression),Kevin, in fruity and many topics were brought up, of the past and present. both of us burst into incessant streams of laughter as both eagerly trying to joke all the way. i truly believe that laughter is the best medicine....thus, LOL and dun be ashame of doing so....and you made my day! good job! truly wish for another gathering ....
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